Can I trust you?


Whether they realize it or not, this is THE question on your prospect’s mind during a pitch.

In last week's LinkedIn post I pointed out that the impression you leave is shaped more by your appearance, tone of voice, and body language than by your presentation content.

This makes evolutionary sense - these cues are harder to fake. Sure, you can dress sharp and psych yourself up, but it’s not about outshining the next person.

What ARE Your prospects scanning for?

Think of a detective interrogating a suspect: since they don't know all the facts, they focus on inconsistencies in the story.

Prospects do the same—they can't accurately judge your future predictions because they’re too complex. Instead, their psyche defaults to assessing whether you seem trustworthy

How?

The marker their subconscious is scanning for is COHESION — does what you say match how you say it?

They register your facial expressions, gestures, tone of voice, and words, scanning for anything out of place.
Our subconscious mind is highly attuned to this; it's a survival mechanism humans have developed to detect potential threats

When everything aligns, it creates a seamless, believable narrative. But if there’s a disconnect, it triggers skepticism, making them question your credibility.

Can You Hack This?

Not really. Evolution is clever.

You should accept that (unless you're a psychopath) any discrepancy in your pitch will show in your non-verbal communication.

You can't directly hack your non-verbal cues, but you can stack the deck in your favor:

When crafting your pitch, put authenticity and integrity above all.
This authenticity will naturally manifest in cohesive verbal and non-verbal communication, scoring you a lot more points than checking this or that hypothetical checkbox.

It’s the opposite of ‘fake it till you make it’ as far as I am concerned.

Aim to be the same person inside and outside the room. Avoid being manipulative in your communication.

Play the deep game of trust, not the shallow game of persuasion.

Sagi

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